Advice to Ruby Cathy by Tenaea Martin

-To Ruby Cathy

            First you should try to sit down with your sister and give her a reality check, because she’s probably acting that way toward your father because her mother has just passed away. Just explain to her it’s a difficult time for all of you and her acting the way she does isn’t going to make it better for anyone. Now the situation with your father is that he loves you guys very much, he just probably doesn’t know how to show it. Usually people like this have a wall built so that no one can get them but if you tell him how you feel, how he’s hurting you physically and emotionally those walls he built might come down and you and your family will be able to live happily.