Advise to Ruby Cathy By Brianna Guy

Dear Ruby,

I am very sorry to hear about all of your troubles. I know it must be hard to deal with this terrible loss, but death is apart of life and things always happen for a reason. Your sister is still young and by the sounds of things i get the feeling she just doesn't know how to show her feeling and your father isn't helping the situation. She probably feels alone and and just wants to live a normal teenage life. It is good that you can face the fact there is problems in your house hold, and try to find you and your sister help. Fist things first you and your sisters actions may play a role in your fathers behavior but he need to learn self control, hitting and threatening you guys does not change the actions you girls make. I also feel he does not talk to you girls about the death of your mother so you all are all struggling with this problem and it is all coming out in your actions. I feel you need to talk to your father and tell him what you have been struggling with he need to hear you guys out. You need to explain the way he treats you guys is unfair, you both sound like lovely strong women but this will only get worse if you don't address the situation now it will just end up worse in the long run. He is your father you guys as a family need to all help each other out in dealing with the loss of your mother. I know you guys can make it though but it will take some time. I hope all things go well and wish the best for you girls. Talk to your sister about how you feel about he and let her know your always here for her. I hope i am able to help you out with your problems just stay positive just remember it is not who you are that holds you back, its who you think you are not .

Best of luck to you and your family Ruby
lots of love Brianna Guy