Advice For Ruby Cathy by Amanda Ash.

Dear Ms. Ruby Cathy,
Due to the recent loss of your mother, people do change and handle situations of great loss and grieving differently. Your sisters way could possibly be rebelling because that she feels she can control something in her life while she lost a big part of it. As well as your father, he lost not just his life partner but your other parental guardian that can make decisions for you. Now he's all on his own, raising two young, almost women. Going back to your relatives could always be fun to keep in touch with your family, you shouldn't frown upon it to much, there's always a benefit to it. Some people don't have opportunities to see there family. But that's the last resort in this situation. You should sit your sister and father down to have a talk about their feelings. And talk about your mother, bring some tissues just in case. If the feelings of missing your mother keep getting buried deeper and deeper down, and never fully get expressed they'll always just linger there in the back of yours and there minds. Death shouldn't be thought of as a bad, sorrowful thing. It comes with life. Just timing is never good for anyone. Remind them that there not alone and they are loved. Hopefully this will show the family love and get feelings out and stuff said that could never of been said. Just make sure this is all done in a calm, collected attitudes. I wish you the best of luck and take care!(: