Advice for Ruby Cathy by Kristen Zolnierzak

Dear Ruby Cathy,

I think you need to talk to your family on how you feel about all of your feelings. The reason why your family is out of place is because you are all grieving from your mothers death. You should talk to your sister and let her know that lying and defying your father is just making matters worse. I believe that you should also ask some of your family members to talk to your father about being abusive. He needs to control his anger by using non violent procedures for punishment. Just know Ruby, that every family goes through some type of change during a close death in a family. After a while things should ease back to normal, even though it might take a long period of time. Stay strong and don't give up or loose hope. Talk to someone when you need to, don't hold your feelings in. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Kristen Zolnierzak